If you answer “yes” to five or more of these statements, ES says, shyness is likely causing you problems.
如果下列问题回答"是"超过5个，ES告诉你，害羞很可能已成为你的困扰啦！
■It's hard for me to stop and talk to a neighbor I don't know well.
■I'm uncomfortable being introduced to a new person.
■It's difficult for me to ask a question during a meeting.
■I hate being the center of attention in a group.
■I find it hard to have someone I don't know well over for dinner.
■It's difficult for me to ask for directions.
■I worry about embarrassing myself if I speak up in a social situation.
■It's difficult for me to speak to someone in authority1.
■Making a telephone call to someone I don't know is hard.
■When I'm speaking to someone I don't know well, it's difficult to talk about my opinions and feelings.
■If I'm at social event, I try always to stay close to someone I know.
■It's hard for me to join in a conversation.
 

1. in authority 有权力，有地位