instead of the pagan god lupercus, the church looked for a suitable patron saint of love to take his place. they found an appropriate choice in valentine, who, in ad270 had been beheaded 3 by emperor claudius. claudius had determined that married men made poor soldiers. so he banned marriage from his empire. but valentine would secretly marry young men that came to him.when claudius found out about valentine, he first tried to convert him to paganism. but valentine reversed the strategy, trying instead to convert claudius. when he failed, he was stoned and beheaded.
during the days that valentine was imprisoned, he fell in love with the blind daughter of his jailer. his love for her, and his great faith, managed to miraculously heal her from her blindness before his death. before he was taken to his death, he signed a farewell message to her, "from your valentine." the phrase has been used on his day ever since.although the lottery for women had been banned by the church, the mid-february holiday in commemoration of st. valentine was stilled used by roman men to seek the affection of women .it became a tradition for the men to give the ones they admired handwritten messages of affection, containing valentine`s name.another valentine was an italian bishop who lived at about the same time, ad 200.he was imprisoned because he secretly married couples, contrary to the laws of the roman emperor. some legends say he was burned at the stake.february 14 was also a roman holiday, held in honor of a goddess. young men andomly chose the name of a young girl to escort to the festivities. the custom of choosing a sweetheart on this date spread through europe in the middle ages, and then to th