小学6年级 - 经验谈 阅读指导

　　"13, you are confident!"
　　"I feel a bit narcissistic 13 you!"
　　This is probably the most times, I heard the voice of the contradiction. Just recently on the magazine to see many related subjects, the inferiority it almost become readme exists upon their shadows.
　　The hero is often parents divorced, lack of love, in this society by throwing the unfortunate woodwork. Because I met many this kind of person, the class will have several. They almost consistent with the value of the emotional character, some crazy defiant, some quiet melancholy. But they are happy with friends, lose a friend is sad. Anyway, they socially absolutely no problem.
　　Real traditional inferior (here is no obvious defects like the ugly duckling who think as forgotten in the corner alone), often from tears normal family normal environment. They are not most conspicuous, no natural blemish, not surprising low grades, let a person look at the reason. Even on LengShi who says she has shortcomings, it is probably a bit weird "character".
　　In other words, flawless people don't need to have the good, don't know inferiority. Inferiority is designed to have strong self consciousness and great acquisitivene, plenty of time and money. First, no money reveals how to earn money would. Lack of time people will be busy with their various events. The former, the latter have humbled himself without capital idle. Of course, the internal is most important. Decide whether a person is not her inferiority, how many shortcomings, but she can accept in heart, could not believe others to her prejudice. This is usually say "psychological quality".
　　I found that very much inferior to others often our opinions, very the attention to everyone. I is such kind of people, friends and felt at home after laughing to finish what I said, what is wrong, will be counterproductive, etc. When we speak, every time I is how I begin the sentence," Thinking, "how do I always want to do". So often self-centered, selfish, but not pour self-awareness is strong. I often hear a story: the worst thing is the human through oneself. There is a saying: when you stare at a thing look too long, you don't know it. So said, so their people sometimes found some defects in themselves, including those not important and don't exist.
　　As previously mentioned, due to the inferior discovered his so-called faults, but more hope for sure, accepted. They are desperate to find such a compliment. We often draw in kindergarten, I have learned that little old hypocrisy, every time after painting, exaggeration, then as bemoan "ugly!" Then I know many people will come to visit, to comfort me say "painting well!" . Hence, I reached the goal.
　　So many of the examples, such as short, always his low gravity, his tall, beautiful people like to say oneself ugly, but ugly man -- still says his ugly. Say they are inferior to others.
　　With autism. Humbled Autism is hated the world hate crowds, imprisons oneself in his heart. And the desire to warm, but in their self-esteem, "" face" cowardly "something like a prisoner, the door. Autistic people killed. The self-belittling person always like a star has many branches of trees, put his arm to god, find hope.
　　In the inferiority of cold narration "to have such a inferior issued distress signal:
　　"A little girl, who adolescence attention her feeling? Just meet the right person, who had the inner light up, they are willing to at that time, just to save you from fire, but the small probability. The incident, and how many people can be lucky to meet?"
　　Here, you should see what is her puzzlement) why any such inferior?
　　I read the text, the reason is found himself: "are not beautiful enough, enough, no childhood, no prince." Even she ranked in the year before, still have a 30 boyfriend, also received a love letter. Such people, some inferior to others, save himself.
　　I was a bit embarrassed, feel her whole story like style. If I have her, will certainly le crazy. Of course I don't know her so cannot understand, but she must have a high requirements for life, high to not grateful. The man always feel unusually, total feel should get more, but when they didn't get more, then analyzed in yourself, entry into the inferiority of circle.
　　Inferior to shrink, his retarded, innocent. Then fondly winked pure white dress eyes crouching in the corner, my PiaoMiao voice tell the world: don't humiliate me and my inferiority. They claimed to be the "weak" woman "fragile heart" and "the fate of the rough." They hope to have a high standing body approached her, and she stood up to comfort her, WenSheng softly, and hand in hand, toward the future.
　　But such things won't happen! To save you is yourself.
　　Actually, the problem is not weakness, attitude, character, is you is in view. Always look at yourself, you can only see you alone, see you in the background of the whole world with others walk together.
　　But I've felt humbled not serious problem, narcissism is terrible. Because China has proclaimed the spirit and humility by making the same pride arrogant. The junior high school, I just thought in moral inferiority and to: narcissism is two kinds of self assessment of extreme, attitude, and even the self-confidence, is all mental health.
　　I don't know why the inferiority total more than narcissism (at least on the surface looks), perhaps because the former let a person produce compassion, while the latter creates sense of disgust. Or, as a universal contagious-you infection of tidal range, fashion?
　　I actually feel self-abased, who also narcissism. Even so, because narcissism inferiority, and also established. The causal relationship I currently is not clear. However, the general rule is that an inferiority and narcissistic coexisting focus more of yourself, for obvious reasons inferiority.
　　Now say the self-belittling person how narcissism. Front has pulled over: because the inferiority, so eager to get affirmation, Because no sure, so heart become sensitive. (when you don't say her back, she feels that you are said she). Because she always think others everywhere, so start with hostility to defend themselves. How to defend themselves, that is positive. The ego is sure to a certain degree, narcissism.
　　For example, my classmate behind such a encompasses. He was small, color is black, also calculate is handsome, but the arms and legs are left traces of eczema. He is, "see za colloquial English more handsome! Good." When I asked a careless again of his arms, he said, "at my half was how my arm? What happened?!!!!!!!!!! You said." Actually I didn't take any color, was he misunderstood, let people laugh and cry. But later, he seldom wear half sleeve.
　　Say so many, but is inferior to advise the narcissistic 1 (including yourself).
　　Your innate and acquired environment and conditions are ok, just don't take yourself too seriously.